Pagi tadi mase drive otw g keje,
dengar fly fm
topic pagi ni
"PETTY ARGUMENT"
Relationship Breaker? *aku saje tambah ayat ni*
hohohoho~ :D
How do u handle a petty argument?
How do you end one?
How do you behave after it happens?
Kenapa perlu ade petty argument tu?
To get more attention ke?
This is the WRONG way to get it,
"you never pay attention to me"
Starts an argument.
"I want to spend some time with you"
That will always get my attention.
Prolonged petty whiny arguments,
cause me to resist doing what I was asked
duhhhh~
Macam feedback yang aku dengar tadi,
sume macam nak blame perempuan
sebab perempuan ni suke membesar2kan isu
suke remeh2kan benda2 kecik
padahal benda tu tak la serius sangat
Itu enggak FAIR! enggak FAIR!
Bagi aku perlu bersikap macam tu,
tapi untuk certain2 case la
sebab lelaki ni lebih bersikap "TAK KISAH"
"ALAA..BENDA KECIK JE TU"
So perempuan la kene memainkan peranan penting
untuk 'tegas' kan sikap acuh tak acuh lelaki tu
bila lelaki dah terbiasa dengan sikap macam tu,
nanti bila ade benda2 penting pon,
dorang anggap sambil lewa je
bukan sebab suka membebel yeh
lain tu...no no no :D
Actually benda ni,
kira macam sikap saling ingat-mengingati sebenarnye
supaya partner kite tu tak alpa..ewah! :D
contoh :
kadang2 partner kite tu terlupa
tarikh anniversary perkahwinan ke
It's Important ok!
date tu something yang sentimental value kot!
tapi lelaki ni selalu anggap benda tu tak penting sangat
hohohoho~ :D
terlupa tarikh pon dah bole nak dijadikan isu
then start la petty argument tu..haaa
Aku nak share la sket kan isu from caller pagi tadi kat fly fm tu. That girl tu cakap, bf die kuar lepak dengan sorang girl ni kat Nilai. *takde tempat lain ke nak dating? tempat mcm kams jugak nak lepak..hahaha.mulot jahat! xpe..hati den baik..wekksss :D* just two of them. berdua saje. diulangi BERDUA sahaja. hahaha. saje nak caps lock 'BERDUA' tu. :D pastu gf that guy tu call la die. from 8.00 pm till 1.00 am bf die tu tak pick up the phone. Gf die tu argue la, if just kua2 lepak, nape tak bole nak angkat phone. pick up je la. Dorang argue2 sampai la dorang end up the argument dengan break up the relationship. Pastu si batu api DJ BEN fly fm ni pon cakap "Just because of that u guys end up the relationship?" hahaha. See! si ben tu nak cakap la yang benda tu small matter je. bole solve. tak payah la sampai nak break up. Pastu caller tu pon cakap la..it's been six years dorang couple, die dah tak tahan lagi dengan perangai bf die tu plus before this bf die tu pon pernah flirt dengan girl lain. Finally, she's find out after a week they broke up, ex-bf die tu couple dengan girl yang die kuar dating kat Nilai tu. What???? WTH!! WTF!!! hahaha. DJ Nadia pon support la that girl. die cakap "Yes! u should break up with your bf and go find another better man. You go girl!" hahaha. I AGREE!!! :D
p/s : im usually not the one to stop the argument first, but if I realize that its completely pathetic, all I say is "you know what ? you're right." that's all. it might be hard because of your ego, but inside you'll know that you're the smarter one ;). But, lately ni aku dah jadi macam cool sket. Cakap pon elok2 je. haha. Aku bersikap lebih mengalah. lebih2 dengan kakak aku.(depends on situation :D). Tengok! adik mengalah dengan kakak. ngeee~
-Fin-